Is There ‘a’ Way To Love Or ‘the’ Way To Love?

Hi guys!

Wow I know it’s been a while; been occupied with a lot of stuff but I promise to be here now! So without further ado, I decided not to let the year 2016 end without  posting this article. It will help you, especially if you’re into the “New Year, New Me” stuff 🙂.. Fresh start yo!

So, Is there ‘a’ way to love or ‘the’ way to love?

Is there though? Which one of them is it?
There shouldn’t just be ‘the’ way to show someone you admire and care for them. There shouldn’t be one way to do things; To show love, to appreciate that special someone, to take care of him/her, to let that someone know how much sacrifice you’re willing to make. To let that one know how many times you will let your guard down because when it comes to matters of the heart, pride shouldn’t be involved. To give them the world even when you don’t have a quarter for it. To love them wholeheartedly without measure, increasing day by day.. No limits.

Once you decide to be part of the club that decides to love in ‘the’ way, there will be no spontaneity. It becomes cliche. You begin to follow an order set by whomever. You limit yourself because you feel like there’s a script you have to follow.
…Monotony
A wise man once said, “in order to be irreplaceable, one must be different”

But when you love in ‘a’ way, you’re not limiting your heart to how far it can go to love.
You’re breaking down all boundaries and doubts. Kissing them under the light of a thousand stars. You’re going the extra mile. You become their comfort in rainy days. You’re the shoulder they can lean on. Your hearts belong together no matter what people say. You are their friend, best friend, lover… You become very lovable because everything about you is a gift they’d want to unwrap everyday.
You become unpredictable and a mystery. You’re exciting. You make them actually look forward to you. You bring some kind of spark to that special someone. You show them what they’ve been missing and even when they have 100 reasons to be in doubt, to give them 1001 more reasons to hold on.
You become different hence irreplaceable.
You become their ‘forever’.
And do you know the best thing? They know you’re putting effort. They know you want this. They know you are down 💯 for them. They know this.

Don’t love in ‘the’ way. Love in ‘a’ way. Immensely. Do it or don’t. There should be no in-betweens

Oh you wanna know why I used that photo for the article? They look so happy and cheerful. Love should be fun. And oh well, I love Grace Byers & her Man 💙

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